No wonder we are adamant about withholding it.
The problem is this: Not Forgiving only maintains Resentment!
What’s worse is that Resentment kills!
The new definition for Forgiveness is: “I’m releasing my Resentment while not condoning the behavior of the other.”
Whatever they did will be wrong 100% of the time, yet unless we let go of our Resentment, we are destined for an eternity of Pain as opposed to the Freedom of Forgiveness.