It will be necessary to weigh rewards and consequences too. What many fail to realize are the Life Decisions we made long ago, usually subsequent to a traumatic event.
These are the damaging Beliefs we Decided about ourselves like:
I don’t matter, I’m not Worthy or I’m not Good Enough.
It will serve you well to inquire about what Life Decisions you’ve made about yourself before making any new major Choices to avoid calamity.