The need to be in Control can cause major distress for all concerned.
Those that must have Control come out looking like tyrants, while those where Control is being enforced often want to rebel.
Who really wants to be in constant battle?
It is hard to have Compassion towards a tyrant.
For those that will seemingly die without Control, there was likely some event in their lives that has them never wanting to lose Control ever again.
Who or what have they given their Power to?