Do you take a Drive approach and Push?
Maybe you take a Reverse course and Retreat.
There is Wisdom in finding a way towards a Neutral existence.
When you Push or Retreat, it's likely due to your Emotional Reaction.
The Responsible route allows Freedom from Emotions and Feelings, thus Allowing you to deal with things as they need to be dealt with; without coloring it with Emotion.
Choosing Neutral let’s things work out.