Be careful not to discount this suggestion as trite or a cute euphemism that you’ve heard over the years. This is one of the most beneficial tools you can ever apply to your life.
The Rules for Ego Survival are:
- Looking Good (making someone else Bad)
- Being Right (making someone else Wrong)
- Avoiding Pain (making someone else Responsible)
- Being In/Out of Control (making someone else Submit)
- Maintaining the Story (making your Inferiority story a reality)
This information is for you and not those you experience conflict with.