What is required for Unconditional Love is total and complete Surrender and Acceptance.
That’s the issue, now isn’t it?
When we have had our heart broken in the Past, it sure doesn’t seem like a good idea to put ourselves in a vulnerable position again, does it?
Yet, that’s the rub.
Is that the kind of Life experience you want to have?
Take a look at your current situation and ask about your Conditions, not theirs, yours!