I was recently reminded of this way to view Life’s troubles.
We all have our part in things that happen.
Truly, there can be instances where we’ve been completely Victimized, yet the Response versus Reaction is on us.
In observation, we see those types and ask: “Why can’t they just get over it?” As if it was that easy. That’s what Psychotherapy is for.
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard someone complain that their Therapist did nothing for them. Was it really their fault?